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兒子深夜敲開母親的門,母親這樣將兒子搞定,震驚無數人 !
兒子上高中兩個月了,剛剛進行完入學的第一次統考。晚上回家,他敲開母親的房門:「媽媽,我睡不著,你能和我說說話嗎?」

「可以,你說吧!」
「你對我的成績滿意嗎?」
「你對你自己的成績滿意嗎?」
「還行吧,感覺挺有自信的。」
「有時候自信比成績更重要!」
「難道你真不在乎我的成績嗎?媽媽!」
「不在乎!你想一想,我什麼時候在乎過你的成績呢?」
「小學的時候,我寫作業一不認真,你就把我的作業撕了,沒有任何餘地!」
「哈哈,我那是在乎你的學習態度。書寫漢字不要求你寫得怎麼美觀,首先必須認真,那是端正的態度問題,態度出問題了,學習肯定出問題,這個人就會出問題。」
「嗯,有道理,我中學的時候你重視我的成績,每天都關注我的聽講情況。」
「那是我在乎你的學習品行。一個學生不尊重課堂就是不尊重老師,不尊重老師就是不尊重知識,不尊重知識,他的品行也好不到哪裡去!」
「嗯,那我上高中了,你肯定在乎我的成績,因為關係到將來的高考呀!」
「說實話,我真的不在乎!我在乎你的是學習品質!具有良好學習品質的學生就能夠享受學習的過程。不想結果會怎樣,愉悅地面對所有的過程。」

「媽媽,那我考上大學后你在乎我什麼呢?聽人家說,上了大學就是玩樂,很輕鬆的。」

「兒子,等你上大學了,媽媽就一定在乎你的成績了。你想想,別人都在玩樂,都在揮霍學習的時候,你依然堅持,最後得到實惠的必定是你自己。」
「我明白了,小學的時候你在乎我的學習態度,中學時你在乎我的學習品行,高中時你在乎我的學習品質,上了大學你在乎我的學習成績,是不是?」
「哈哈,我兒子感悟深刻呀!」
「媽媽,上了高中我有很多自己的感悟呢。第一,高中只是給我提供了一個新的台階,如果不上高中,我的發展空間就會相對小一些。第二,在學習過程中,我在班級找到一個自己突破的目標,時刻和他進行對比,看看自己到底差在哪裡。第三、珍惜每一堂課,即使不複習,成績也會很理想。第四、不跟別人比較,只跟自己比。第五、享受每一個學習的瞬間,收穫自信。
「我很贊成,你知道我對你大學畢業后的期待嗎?」
「哈哈,媽媽,你想的很遠呀!」
「人無遠慮必有近憂嘛。你將來踏上社會,我在乎你是否能夠明智的選擇。選擇自己的事業,選擇自己的愛情,這些都將左右你生命的大部分。」
「這些對我來講很遙遠的,我還沒有想過。」
「不著急,但是媽媽給你一個忠告—–寧靜致遠!你看這兩個字,寶蓋頭代表著家,下面一個丁,說明你必須具有擔當,為自己的將來負責;靜是一個青一個爭,爭得春天,春天意味著希望、美好和憧憬。只有時刻讓自己的心寧靜,才能讓自己達到更遠的境界!」
「媽媽,你可真會曲解漢字,哈哈!」
「怎麼叫曲解呢?想想看,十年前你又哭又鬧要玩電腦,我果斷拒絕了,到現在,你可以和自己的同齡人比較比較,你的心不浮躁,這一點起到了很大的作用呀!明確了每一個學習階段的重點和目標,再過十年,你會更加受益。我很欣賞你的——不跟別人比,就跟自己比,體現了你樂觀積極的心態!有了陽光般的心態,無論你將來做什麼,你都會不辜負自己,都會做到享受生活的本身,這就是幸福!」
「跟你一談話,心裡感覺有更大的力量了。」
「兒子,快12點了,睡覺吧!」
「好的,媽媽晚安!」
「晚安!」
兒子帶著滿足很快進入了夢鄉,母親卻平生第一次失眠了,沒辦法,就讓自己享受這失眠的當下吧……

 

反思:小學重態度,中學重品行,高中重品質,大學重成績,將來重選擇,不可顛倒,因為教育沒有回頭路可走。還有,家長的引導很重要,推動搖籃的手就是推動地球的手。

 

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